Parenting is a tough job but very important at the same time. It can be even tougher when you try to achieve some certain results and your child does not seem to learn what you want him to know. The feeling of not getting the desired results can be very frustrating and at the same time threatening to your relations with your children. You can avoid such situations if follow some tips which are shared by most of the parents who experienced successful parenting:
Love Your Child Unconditionally and Encourage him Generously
Parents are the first persons in the life of a child who make him feel of his importance and give him the unshakable confidence which he needs throughout his life. You can do this by listening to him, by talking to him and together playing with him any game of your or his choice. It is also important that you encourage your child in a certain style. Say some meaningful remarks that make difference for him instead of simply saying "good boy" or "well done."
Priorities Your Child Over Other Things in Life
Life is full of demands. All of you have got a lot to do and finish it on daily basis but as a parent you need to rank your obligations and duties. Your child, of course, comes first. Take time from your busy daily routine to take care of your child and give him his due share of your love and care. It might turn tough at some points but if you compare between your child and other obligations you can find that your child has greater right of your attention.
Do not Use So Many "Nos"
Keep on telling your child "no" many times makes the word lose its effect. S Instead of saying him "do not do this or that", show him practically how to behave I life. Leave there margin that he has opportunity to learn and understand from his little life what is good and what if not.
If any time a conversation turns to be very hot with your child, do not try to force your point but leave him alone for some moments and tell him to approach you when feels necessary. This can give him chance to think a little and discover himself what he did was not right and how he needs to behave with his parents.
Use kindness and Firmness at the Same time
Being kind and loving does not imply that you lose your stance on any point or your own beliefs that you want to introduce them to your children. Your strong stance can make your child feel and learn to keep on his values and morals.