We all hope for a fairytale when we go on a first date, but sometimes it can turn into a horror show. Here are some signs to watch out for so you don’t end up with a total dud.
You can usually tell a lot about someone in just one meeting. We’re not talking about their deep thoughts, but rather how to spot the types who are just trouble waiting to happen.
Keep an eye out for these warning signs:
- He’s Late: If he shows up more than 15 minutes late, it’s a red flag. Sure, traffic happens, but why should you pay for his poor time management?
- He Refuses a Drink: If you offer him a glass of wine and he turns it down but then watches you sip yours like he’s starving, that’s a sign. He might be trying to impress you by pretending to be sober, but check for any signs of a drinking problem.
- He Gets Wasted: If he downs drinks like it’s water and claims he’s just nervous, that’s a huge warning. This could mean he relies on alcohol to cope. Do you really want to deal with someone who can’t handle stress without a drink?
- Shifty Eyes: If he can’t keep his eyes on you and is either darting around the room or staring at you like he’s taking notes, that’s not a good sign. It’s a bit creepy, honestly.
- Obsessed with Women’s Topics: If he’s super into discussing things like hair removal or breast implants and gives unsolicited advice, run. You don’t need a guy who wants to “fix” you.
- Over-the-Top Compliments: If he’s showering you with compliments non-stop and can’t let you get a word in, be cautious. If he has a celebrity crush that you resemble, he might just be looking for a replacement.
- Always Talks About His Ex: If he can’t stop bringing up his ex, whether he’s trashing her or praising her, he’s not over her. That’s a sign he’s not ready for something new.
- Too Touchy-Feely: If he’s trying to get physical right away and doesn’t share much about himself, he might just be looking for a one-night stand. Plus, if he’s quoting philosophers but can’t hold a decent conversation, that’s a red flag.
- Daughter Comes First: If he keeps saying his daughter from a previous relationship is the most important woman in his life, it’s going to be tough being second place.
- Mama’s Boy: If he’s constantly comparing you to his mom or takes calls from her during your date, you might be dealing with a guy who’s not ready to grow up.
- Sloppy Appearance: If he shows up looking like he just rolled out of bed and can’t even eat without making a mess, ask yourself if this is really the kind of guy you want to invest your time in.
Remember, you deserve someone who treats you well and respects your time!
