So, conflict resolution is basically just a part of communication, but for a lot of couples, things only get tricky when there’s a disagreement. Even if the root of the conflict is just poor listening, not showing enough support, or struggling to express feelings, it’s super important to focus on this because it’s usually where couples end up hurting each other the most.
Some couples handle conflicts like pros because they’re pretty laid-back or they grew up in families that showed them how to do it right. But eventually, every couple hits a bump in the road—a disagreement or a fight that tests their patience and skills. It’s all part of sharing a life together.
When you’re living with someone, sharing habits, dreams, and sometimes kids, it’s totally normal to have different opinions on stuff. If you never disagree, it might mean one person is avoiding conflict, hiding their true self, or always giving in, and that’s not a healthy way to do marriage in the long run.
For More Info:
- Fighting for Your Marriage (3rd Edition) by Howard Markman, Scott Stanley, and Susan Blumberg
- The Forgiveness Book: A Catholic Approach by Mary Ann Paulukonis
- After the Glass Slipper: Eight Proven Steps to Lasting Love by Jon and Beverly Meyerson
- The Honeymoon Habit: Lessons for Renewing Romance and Reconnecting With Your Spouse by Tony Garascia
