Many women believe that all men “want the same things” in bed. We asked the experts: Is this true?
Our expert, sexologist and President of the Association of Sexologists Yevgeny Aleksandrovich Kulgavchuk, discussed the sexual needs of men of different age groups.
Sexual maturity: 20-30 years
Quantity replaces quality, as men in this age group do not have a specific preference and change partners frequently. This is a time for experimentation, innovation, knowledge and the acquisition of one’s self-esteem. To “release” youth, be as self-aware and mysterious as possible and learn to create wonders!
Don’t forget to compliment in this erotic context. For everything. For flowers, for competition, or for passionate sex. Appreciate broad shoulders or sharp eyes. Men need praise and admiration just as much as women. Working Life: 30-45 years
At this point, sexuality itself is no longer the main issue. Harmony of life goals and priorities comes first. Being smart and able to wear not only short skirts but also beautiful accessories.
It is important not only to be attractive, but also to be real. Try to be a man’s friend. Don’t change him or re-teach him, just understand and accept him. At this point, most men know what they want from life and what they expect from women. All you have to do is listen to him and give him what he wants. As long as there is no pain or manipulation.
Most of the time I try to do things he likes. At this stage, women have developed a sense of satisfaction in bed, so they can be the “key” to sex and “turn on” their partner’s “sexual engine”.
After 45 years – sexual desire begins to decline
Here it is necessary to create the best conditions for sexual life. In this way, no one is disturbed and there is time for planning, repair, retirement and “change”. It is necessary to try to maintain the general health of men at a certain level, because when a disease occurs, sexual function loses its meaning. Sexual life should not be interrupted for a long time, otherwise an irreversible “holding” situation will occur. There is a concept in sexology called “widow syndrome”. The name says it all. At first there is no time, then you don’t want to do it because of the changes in hormone levels. Of course, if you abstain from sex for a week, there is nothing dangerous, but if you abstain from sex for months or years, problems can arise. In severe cases, it can be difficult to help. Therefore, the basic policy at the moment is to maintain a good relationship at the base.
After the age of 45, men’s sexual activity begins to decline.
Not all mentally ill people are ready to accept the refusal of sex. Gray hair in the beard – the devil in the ribs. Many people have heard this phrase. The main reason is psychological. It is very important to have a good relationship with your partner. After all, some men who want to stay “young forever” will be criticized and ridiculed by their wives. Over time, the couple started to part ways at sunset. No sunset, just a second wave. A new phase in life where you can afford to travel, enjoy new ideas and the good life. Give your hero a chance to be a hero. Don’t be a critic or a sad mother. Learn how to enjoy life. This will make you, your organization and yourself happier.
